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Hallovini e\u0308shte\u0308 feste\u0308 pagane dhe festohet me\u0308 31 Tetore\u0308 pjese\u0308risht si kujtim i shejtanit, i cili e\u0308shte\u0308 i lig dhe te\u0308 cilit secili duhet t\u2019i largohet dhe te\u0308 ke\u0308rkoje\u0308 strehim prej tij te Allahu.<\/strong><\/p>\n Paramendo se fe\u0308mije\u0308t tuaj jane\u0308 kthyer ne\u0308 shte\u0308pi nate\u0308n e Hallovinit (31 tetor) dhe ke\u0308rkojne\u0308 prej jush te\u0308 luani dhe te\u0308 ke\u0308naqeni. Ata nuk mund te\u0308 presin pe\u0308r te\u0308 gjithe\u0308 c\u0327amc\u0327ake\u0308ze\u0308t, le\u0308pizat dhe keke\u0308t, as ta pe\u0308rmendin te\u0308 veshurit si Pokemoni ose kostumet qe\u0308 iu pe\u0308lqejne\u0308 shoke\u0308ve te\u0308 tyre. Ke\u0308shilla 1: Me\u0308soje sakte\u0308sisht se c\u0327ka e\u0308shte\u0308 Hallovini.<\/strong><\/p>\n Shume\u0308 shpesh, prinde\u0308rit vet jane\u0308 te\u0308 paditur rreth prapavije\u0308s se\u0308 shkaqeve dhe festave si Hallovini. Mos mendo se kjo e\u0308shte\u0308 c\u0327e\u0308shtje e pare\u0308nde\u0308sishme. Se\u0308 pari me\u0308sojeni pse festohet Hallovini, pastaj do te\u0308 mendoni dy here\u0308 rreth pe\u0308rfshirjes se\u0308 fe\u0308mije\u0308ve tuaj ne\u0308 ke\u0308te\u0308 feste\u0308. Ne\u0308 te\u0308 ve\u0308rtete\u0308, secili prind i cili mundohet t\u2019i rrise\u0308 fe\u0308mije\u0308t e tij ose te\u0308 saj si persona te\u0308 nde\u0308rgjegjshe\u0308m ndaj Zotit do ta kunde\u0308rshtoje\u0308 arsyen e ke\u0308saj feste. Kaloni vete\u0308m nje\u0308 ore\u0308 ne\u0308 biblioteke\u0308 duke ke\u0308rkuar ne\u0308 enciklopedi dhe kontrolloni revistat e festave te\u0308 miteve. Ne\u0308se Ke\u0308shilla 2: Bisedoni me ta se\u0308 paku para disa jave\u0308sh.<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo be\u0308het me\u0308 lehte\u0308 nga fakti se tregtia e bonboneve dhe kostumeve te\u0308 \u201cHallovinit\u201d jane\u0308 gati dhe rituali vjetor i filmave me tmerre le\u0308shohet ne\u0308 televizion. Ke\u0308shtu qe\u0308 e\u0308shte\u0308 koha ta ulim poshte\u0308 \u2018Ajshen ose Aliun\u2019 pe\u0308r te\u0308 biseduar rreth Hallovinit. Biseda me ta tani e kunde\u0308rve\u0308ne\u0308 ne\u0308 me\u0308ngjesin e 31 tetorit do t\u2019u jepte atyre pak kohe\u0308 pe\u0308r t\u2019u menduar, gjithashtu edhe te\u0308 me\u0308sohen me idene\u0308 pe\u0308r te\u0308 mos qene\u0308 te\u0308 mashtruar vete\u0308m sepse shoke\u0308t e tyre jane\u0308.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shilla 3: Ua shpjego ne\u0308 me\u0308nyre\u0308 te\u0308 arsyeshme se ne kemi festat tona.<\/strong><\/p>\n Biseda rreth Hallovinit ne\u0308 kontekstin e fjalimit te\u0308 zjarrte\u0308 rreth asaj se si \u201cke\u0308ta jo myslimane\u0308t jane\u0308 kaq te\u0308 djalle\u0308zuar\u201d nuk do t\u2019i ndihmoje\u0308 \u2018Ajshes ose Aliut\u2019 te\u0308 kuptojne\u0308 pse ata nuk do te\u0308 marrin pjese\u0308. Ne\u0308 vend te\u0308 ke\u0308saj, u shpjego se c\u0327do grup ose kulture\u0308 ka festat e veta, dhe ne si myslimane\u0308 kemi festat tona. Hallovini e\u0308shte\u0308 feste\u0308 pagane. Por kur vjen festa e Bajramit, ajo e\u0308shte\u0308 festa jone\u0308. Ua shpjego ne\u0308 me\u0308nyre\u0308 te\u0308 qete\u0308 se c\u0327ka e\u0308shte\u0308 kjo, duke i theksuar rreziqet e Hallovinit dhe i leni fe\u0308mije\u0308t tuaj te\u0308 mendojne\u0308 rreth ke\u0308saj.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shilla 4: Mendo rreth rreziqeve tjera te\u0308 Hallovinit (kjo vlen pe\u0308r Amerike\u0308)<\/strong><\/p>\n Tregime te\u0308 tmerrshme rreth tehut te\u0308 shpate\u0308s ne\u0308 molle\u0308, \u2018pastrues\u2019 te\u0308 dhe\u0308ne\u0308 ne\u0308 vend te\u0308 c\u0327okollatave pe\u0308r t\u2019i mashtruar, ose rreziku ne\u0308 rruge\u0308 duhet gjithashtu te\u0308 pe\u0308rmendet, por mos u pe\u0308rqendroni ne\u0308 arsyet pse e kunde\u0308rshtoni Hallovinin.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shilla 5: Ua shpjegoni se secila prej festave tona ka nje\u0308 kuptim.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ua pe\u0308rkujto fe\u0308mije\u0308ve tuaj se pe\u0308r ne myslimane\u0308t festat tona gjithmone\u0308 kane\u0308 nje\u0308 kuptim te\u0308 mire\u0308 dhe pozitiv. Pe\u0308r shembull, ne\u0308 Fite\u0308r Bajram ne festojme\u0308 ke\u0308naqe\u0308sine\u0308 tone\u0308 te\u0308 agje\u0308rimit gjate\u0308 muajit te\u0308 bekuar te\u0308 Ramazanit, e cila e\u0308shte\u0308 kohe\u0308 kur ne pe\u0308rpiqemi te\u0308 jemi me\u0308 afe\u0308r Allahut dhe te\u0308 be\u0308hemi myslimane\u0308 me\u0308 te\u0308 mire\u0308. Hallovini, ne\u0308 ane\u0308n tjete\u0308r, festohet pjese\u0308risht si kujtim i shejtanit, i cili e\u0308shte\u0308 i lig dhe te\u0308 cilit secili duhet t\u2019i largohet dhe te\u0308 ke\u0308rkoje\u0308 strehim prej tij te Allahu.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shilla 6: E thekso se nuk ka asgje\u0308 te\u0308 keqe te\u0308 jesh ndryshe.<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo pike\u0308 e\u0308shte\u0308 vendimtare sepse do te\u0308 kete\u0308 tjera festa me\u0308 vone\u0308 ne\u0308 jete\u0308n e tyre kur fe\u0308mije\u0308t myslimane\u0308 nuk duhet te\u0308 marrin pjese\u0308 ne\u0308 aktivitetet shkollore. Kjo nuk do te\u0308 thote\u0308 largim i vazhdueshe\u0308m nga te\u0308 gjitha aktivitetet dhe shfaqjet shkollore, por do te\u0308 thote\u0308 se si myslimane\u0308, ata duhet ta marrin ate\u0308 qe\u0308 e\u0308shte\u0308 e mire\u0308, por gjithashtu ata duhet te\u0308 me\u0308sojne\u0308 te\u0308 refuzojne\u0308 ate\u0308 qe\u0308 e\u0308shte\u0308 e keqe, ne\u0308 me\u0308nyre\u0308 te\u0308 urte\u0308.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shilla 7. Tako me\u0308suesin e fe\u0308mije\u0308ve pe\u0308r ta diskutuar ke\u0308te\u0308.<\/strong><\/p>\n Caktoje nje\u0308 takim pe\u0308r te\u0308 diskutuar rreth Hallovinit dhe festave ose aktiviteteve te\u0308 cilat ti si mysliman nuk de\u0308shiron qe\u0308 fe\u0308mija juaj te\u0308 pe\u0308rfshihet ne\u0308 to. Por gjithashtu bisedo rreth llojeve te\u0308 aktiviteteve te\u0308 cilat i ke\u0308shillon ose i pe\u0308lqen dhe diskuto rreth festave islame. Ke\u0308shilla 8: Mos i de\u0308rgo ne\u0308 shkolle\u0308 ata dite\u0308n e Hallovinit ne\u0308se aty ka feste\u0308.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ne\u0308se me\u0308suesi ka caktuar nje\u0308 feste\u0308 te\u0308 Hallovinit ne\u0308 klase\u0308, thjesht mos e de\u0308rgo \u2018Aliun ose Ajshen\u2019 ne\u0308 shkolle\u0308 ate\u0308 dite\u0308. Sidoqofte\u0308, para se ta be\u0308sh ke\u0308te\u0308, ju duhet t\u2019ia shkruani nje\u0308 lete\u0308r te\u0308 shkurte\u0308r ose njoftim me\u0308suesit pe\u0308r t\u2019ia shpjeguar arsyen pse djali ose vajza juaj nuk do te\u0308 shkoje\u0308 ne\u0308 shkolle\u0308 ate\u0308 dite\u0308.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shilla 9. Mblidhni ata ne\u0308 shte\u0308pine\u0308 e nje\u0308 shoku mysliman ne\u0308 dite\u0308n e Hallovinit.<\/strong><\/p>\n Mos e be\u0308j ke\u0308te\u0308 nje\u0308 rast te\u0308 vec\u0327ante\u0308. Ne\u0308se rregullisht takoheni me familjet tjera myslimane dhe fe\u0308mije\u0308t tuaj me fe\u0308mije\u0308t e tyre, i vizito ata ose i fto ata vete\u0308m pe\u0308r te\u0308 luajtur ose pe\u0308r Ke\u0308shilla 10: Dilni me ta pe\u0308r petulla.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ose c\u0327kado tjete\u0308r hallall, vete\u0308m pe\u0308r te\u0308 mos ndenjur ne\u0308 shte\u0308pi kur \u2018mashtrimet\u2019 vijne\u0308 te\u0308 trokasin, c\u0327ka do ta forconte histerine\u0308 e Hallovinit.<\/p>\n Ke\u0308shillla 11. Fikni dritat, mbyllini dritaret dhe me\u0308soni fqinje\u0308t tuaj (pe\u0308r Amerike\u0308 ose bashke\u0308site\u0308 qe\u0308 e festojne\u0308)<\/strong><\/p>\n Fikja e dritave do t\u2019ua be\u0308j me dije se shte\u0308pia juaj me te\u0308 ve\u0308rtete\u0308 nuk e\u0308shte\u0308 e interesuar pe\u0308r Hallovinin. Mbyllja e dritareve mund te\u0308 jete\u0308 e domosdoshme, qe\u0308 kur hidhen veze\u0308t ne\u0308 shte\u0308pine\u0308 e ndonje\u0308rit i cili nuk jep bonbone, nuk e\u0308shte\u0308 e pazakonte\u0308 pe\u0308r Hallovin. Me\u0308soji fqinje\u0308t tuaj rreth Hallovinit duke i njoftuar me nje\u0308 she\u0308nim te\u0308 shkurte\u0308r rreth asaj se pse ju nuk e festoni ate\u0308. Ke\u0308shilla 12: Pe\u0308rhape fjale\u0308n dy ose tri jave\u0308 me\u0308 pare\u0308, organizo ndonje\u0308 seminar.<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo do te\u0308 ishte pe\u0308r ne\u0308nat, baballare\u0308t myslimane\u0308 dhe fe\u0308mije\u0308t e tyre. Do te\u0308 duhej te\u0308 ishte nje\u0308 prezantim se c\u0327ka sakte\u0308sisht ishte Hallovini dhe c\u0327ka duhej te\u0308 be\u0308nin prinde\u0308rit myslimane\u0308. Derisa te\u0308 diskutohej kjo, fe\u0308mije\u0308t do te\u0308 duhej lejuar te\u0308 luanin bashke\u0308 ne\u0308n mbike\u0308qyrjen e nje\u0308 grupi kujdestaresh. Kjo do te\u0308 she\u0308rbente pe\u0308r informimin e ne\u0308nave dhe baballare\u0308ve, derisa fe\u0308mije\u0308ve iu jepet nje\u0308 rast pe\u0308r t\u2019u arge\u0308tuar (dhe ndoshta me Ke\u0308shilla 13: Mbaje premtimin rreth feste\u0308s se\u0308 Bajramit<\/strong><\/p>\n Pe\u0308r nje\u0308 nume\u0308r te\u0308 te\u0308 rinjve myslimane\u0308 te\u0308 cile\u0308t kane\u0308 lindur ne\u0308 pere\u0308ndim, festa e Bajramit e\u0308shte\u0308 vete\u0308m nje\u0308 dite\u0308 tjete\u0308r, ku prinde\u0308rit madje as nuk marrin dite\u0308 te\u0308 lire\u0308 ne\u0308 pune\u0308. Ne\u0308 rastin tjete\u0308r, kur ata mund te\u0308 marrin dite\u0308 te\u0308 lire\u0308, rituali e\u0308shte\u0308 i nje\u0308jte\u0308: ngrihen, veshin rroba te\u0308 reja, shkojne\u0308 ne\u0308pe\u0308r salla luksoze, falen, duke mos kuptuar se c\u0327ka po ndodh ne\u0308 te\u0308 ve\u0308rtete\u0308, pe\u0308rqafohen me \u201cUrime Bajramin\u201d, kthehen ne\u0308 shte\u0308pi, hane\u0308 ushqim tradicional, fitojne\u0308 para (si dhurate\u0308 e Bajramit). Pike\u0308. Nuk ka mahnitje te\u0308 ndric\u0327imit te\u0308 syve te\u0308 fe\u0308mije\u0308ve tane\u0308 kur ata shohin dritat e krishtlindjeve, dhurata te\u0308 mbe\u0308shtjella me shke\u0308lqim dhe kur de\u0308gjojne\u0308 pe\u0308r arge\u0308timin dhe ke\u0308naqe\u0308sine\u0308 e Hallovinit.<\/p>\n Be\u0308jeni Bajramin te\u0308 vec\u0327ante\u0308. Mos be\u0308ni ashtu qe\u0308 vete\u0308m t\u2019ua mbushni mendjen atyre qe\u0308 te\u0308 mos marrin pjese\u0308 ne\u0308 Hallovin e pastaj ta thyeni premtimin. Ne\u0308 Bajram, merrni ata ne\u0308 namazin e Bajramit, merrni ata ne\u0308 lokalin qe\u0308 organizon feste\u0308n e Bajramit ose ne\u0308 parkun arge\u0308tues. Organizoni takim dhe i ftoni shoke\u0308t e tyre. Ka munde\u0308si pe\u0308r arge\u0308tim hallall. Ne iu kemi borxh fe\u0308mije\u0308ve tane\u0308, ne\u0308se duam qe\u0308 ata te\u0308 jene\u0308 myslimane\u0308 dhe te\u0308 krenohen me ke\u0308te\u0308, te\u0308 festojne\u0308 festat ne\u0308 jete\u0308 te\u0308 cilat ve\u0308rtet kane\u0308 arsye pe\u0308r ne, sikur festat e dy bajrameve.<\/p>\n Pe\u0308rktheu nga anglishtja: Fexhrie Kac\u0327iu<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hallovini e\u0308shte\u0308 feste\u0308 pagane dhe festohet me\u0308 31 Tetore\u0308 pjese\u0308risht si kujtim i shejtanit, i cili e\u0308shte\u0308 i lig dhe te\u0308 cilit secili duhet t\u2019i largohet dhe te\u0308 ke\u0308rkoje\u0308 strehim prej tij te Allahu. Paramendo se fe\u0308mije\u0308t tuaj jane\u0308 kthyer ne\u0308 shte\u0308pi nate\u0308n e Hallovinit (31 tetor) dhe ke\u0308rkojne\u0308 prej jush te\u0308 luani dhe te\u0308 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":27677,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kulture"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27676"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27676\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27677"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nKe\u0308to jane\u0308 disa ke\u0308shilla si te\u0308 silleni me \u2018potere\u0308n e Hallovinit\u2019:<\/p>\n
\ne diskutoni ke\u0308te\u0308 me fe\u0308mije\u0308t tuaj duke pe\u0308rdorur informacione korrekte, dhe ata kuptojne\u0308 se ju e dini se c\u0327ka jeni duke folur, ata madje mund te\u0308 pajtohen me juve rreth mospjese\u0308marrjes ne\u0308 ritual.<\/p>\n
\nDil vullnetar ne\u0308 ramazan, pe\u0308r shembull, ta paraqite\u0308sh dhe t\u2019u sjelle\u0308sh ushqim fe\u0308mije\u0308ve gjate\u0308 bisede\u0308s rreth re\u0308nde\u0308sise\u0308 se\u0308 ke\u0308tij muaji pe\u0308r muslimane\u0308t.<\/p>\n
\n te\u0308 ndenjur. Kjo do t\u2019ua largonte mendjen nga histeria e Hallovinit qe\u0308 ndodh jashte\u0308.<\/p>\n
\nShema Imam, pe\u0308r shembull, ne\u0308 nje\u0308 dite\u0308 te\u0308 Hallovinit, vendosi nje\u0308 she\u0308nim dekorativ ne\u0308 dere\u0308n e saj pe\u0308r t\u2019iu treguar fqinje\u0308ve te\u0308 saj se ajo nuk pe\u0308rkrah lavde\u0308rimin e rreme\u0308 satanik te\u0308 shejtanit qe\u0308 pasqyrohet nga Hallovini. Sidoqofte\u0308, ajo tha se ishte mrekulli se atje ishte bashke\u0308punimi i lagjes pe\u0308r ta pe\u0308rkrahur sigurine\u0308 e fe\u0308mije\u0308ve ne\u0308 Hallovin. Imam nuk mori ndonje\u0308 koment, por gjithashtu tha se askush nuk e gjuajti shte\u0308pine\u0308 e saj me veze\u0308.<\/p>\n
\nke\u0308te\u0308 ata do t\u2019i largoheshin nate\u0308s se\u0308 c\u0327mendur te\u0308 Hallovinit- shiko ke\u0308shille\u0308n 9)<\/p>\n