{"id":40541,"date":"2026-06-03T21:23:46","date_gmt":"2026-06-03T19:23:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/children-who-lie-do-not-necessarily-grow-up-to-be-bad-people\/"},"modified":"2026-06-03T21:23:47","modified_gmt":"2026-06-03T19:23:47","slug":"children-who-lie-do-not-necessarily-grow-up-to-be-bad-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/children-who-lie-do-not-necessarily-grow-up-to-be-bad-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Children who lie do not necessarily grow up to be bad people"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/2030-1.jpg\" style=\"width:100%;height:auto;margin-bottom:20px\"><\/p>\n<p>New study reveals when lying in children is a normal part of development and when it may be a sign for concern<\/p>\n<p>Parents often worry when they realize their child has lied. Although we know that lying is not always a sign of something bad, serious or irreparable, it is not easy to hear and experience this from your child.<\/p>\n<p>However, a new study shows that children who lie do not necessarily end up on the wrong path. According to research published in May in the scientific journal Development and Psychopathology, most children&#8217;s lies do not lead to serious problems in adulthood. Only certain forms of lying, especially when they are frequent and accompanied by aggressiveness or impulsivity, can be related to later psychological or legal difficulties.<\/p>\n<p>The study, carried out by researchers from McGill University in Montreal and John Jay College in New York, analyzed the data of about 3,000 people who had attended school in Quebec, Canada in the mid-1980s. The researchers followed the patterns of lying from childhood to adolescence and compared them with later development in adulthood.<\/p>\n<p>According to them, the most frequent patterns showed stability or decrease in the tendency to lie over time. In other words, many children who lie occasionally do not necessarily continue with the same problematic behavior.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Not all children follow the same developmental pattern of lying,&#8221; said Victoria Talwar, a professor at McGill University and lead author of the study. According to her, most of the children in the study showed low or declining levels of lying over the years, so for most of them this does not constitute problematic behavior.<\/p>\n<p>However, the study emphasizes that a distinction must be made between occasional lying and persistent lying. Children who lied frequently or whose lying increased over time were more likely to show early aggression and impulsivity. In some cases, these behaviors were later linked to antisocial personality symptoms and criminal convictions in the transition from adolescence to adulthood.<\/p>\n<p>This does not mean that every child who lies is at risk. Occasional lying in children is often part of normal development. At an early age, children learn to distinguish reality from fantasy, understand the consequences of their actions, and test boundaries. In this sense, an isolated lie should not cause panic in parents.<\/p>\n<p>What requires more attention is the repeated pattern: when the child lies repeatedly, when the lie becomes a way to avoid responsibility, when it is accompanied by aggressiveness, lack of remorse, impulsive behavior or problems at school and in relationships with others.<\/p>\n<p>In such cases, the best approach is not only punishment. The child may need more support, calm conversation, clear rules and, if necessary, help from a psychologist or school counselor.<\/p>\n<p>Experts emphasize that parents should try to understand why the child is lying. Sometimes he lies out of fear of punishment, out of shame, to avoid disappointing his parents, to gain attention or to fit in with his peers. The more confident the child feels about telling the truth, the greater the chance that lying will not become a habit.<\/p>\n<p>The main message of the study is reassuring for parents: a child who lies occasionally is not necessarily on the wrong track. But when the lie becomes continuous, increases over time and is accompanied by other disturbing behaviors, it should be seen as a signal that the child needs attention, support and more careful guidance.<\/p>\n<hr style=\"margin:30px 0\">\n<p style=\"font-size:13px;color:#666\">Source: <strong>prizrenpost<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>New study reveals when lying in children is a normal part of development and when it may be a sign for concern Parents often worry when they realize their child has lied. Although we know that lying is not always a sign of something bad, serious or irreparable, it is not easy to hear and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":40542,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40541","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health"],"views":7,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40541","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40541"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40541\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40543,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40541\/revisions\/40543"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40542"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40541"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40541"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40541"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}