{"id":4942,"date":"2016-03-12T10:57:51","date_gmt":"2016-03-12T09:57:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/?p=4942"},"modified":"2017-02-16T01:26:35","modified_gmt":"2017-02-16T00:26:35","slug":"islam-ahlakinda-digergamlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/islam-ahlakinda-digergamlik\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130sl\u00e2m Ahl\u00e2k\u0131nda Di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_3577\" style=\"width: 260px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3577\" src=\"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/osmannuritopbas.png\" alt=\"Osman Nuri Topba\u015f\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3577\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3577\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Osman Nuri Topba\u015f<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Bir Soru Bir Cevap | Gen\u00e7 Dergisi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Y\u0131l: 2014, Ay: A\u011fustos, Say\u0131: 95<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Efendim; Di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k nedir? \u0130sl\u00e2m ahl\u00e2k\u0131, m\u00fc\u02bcminlere nas\u0131l bir di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k ufku telkin eder?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bir m\u00fc\u2019minin ahl\u00e2k ve faz\u00eelet seviyesini g\u00f6steren en b\u00e2riz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc olan di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k, kendinden \u00f6nce din karde\u015finin huzur ve sa\u00e2detini tercih edebilmektir. Yani benlikten di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131\u011fa ge\u00e7ip; \u00ab\u00d6nce ben\u00bb yerine \u00ab\u00f6nce sen\u00bb veya \u00ab\u00f6nce o\u00bb diyebilmektir. Bu bak\u0131mdan di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k, kalb\u00ee olgunlu\u011fun bir tez\u00e2h\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fc\u2019min, di\u011ferg\u00e2m insand\u0131r. Zira s\u0131rf kendi menfaatini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, kaba, hodg\u00e2m, bencil ve cimri bir insan tipinden Rabbimiz r\u00e2z\u0131 olmamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, Hab\u00eeb-i Ekrem Efendimiz\u2019in m\u00fcstesn\u00e2 hayat\u0131yla, bizlere bir m\u00fc\u2019minin, nas\u0131l bir di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k ufku ta\u015f\u0131mas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini t\u00e2lim buyurmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Nitekim Efendimiz -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-, d\u00e2im\u00e2 kendi nefsinden \u00f6nce \u00fcmmetini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Kendisine ikr\u00e2m edilen bir \u015feyi, \u00f6nce ash\u00e2b\u0131na da\u011f\u0131tm\u0131\u015f, onlar\u0131 rahat ve huzura kavu\u015fturmadan kendisi de rahat ve huzur bulamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Mesel\u00e2 kendisine a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 gidermesi i\u00e7in takdim edilen bir s\u00fct\u00fc, b\u00fct\u00fcn ash\u00e2b-\u0131 suffe ile payla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, ancak onlar tamamen doyduktan sonra kalan s\u00fct ile kendi a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Yine Efendimiz -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem -seferlerde ve sava\u015f esn\u00e2s\u0131nda en \u00f6nde bulunarak ash\u00e2b\u0131na destek olmu\u015f, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fte ise kafilenin arkas\u0131ndan gelerek, y\u00fcr\u00fcmekte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7eken zay\u0131flara yard\u0131m etmi\u015f, onlar\u0131 terkisine bindirerek kendilerine du\u00e2 etmi\u015flerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- Efendimiz\u2019in \u015fu if\u00e2deleri, O\u2019na \u00fcmmet olma bahtiyarl\u0131\u011f\u0131na eren her bir m\u00fc\u2019mine, ne e\u015fsiz bir \u015fefkat, merhamet, di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k ve mes\u2019\u00fbliyet duygusu t\u00e2lim etmektedir:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen her m\u00fc\u2019mine kendi nefsinden daha ileriyim, daha yak\u0131n\u0131m. Bir kimse \u00f6l\u00fcrken mal b\u0131rak\u0131rsa, o mal kendi yak\u0131nlar\u0131na \u00e2ittir. Fakat bor\u00e7 veya yetimler b\u0131rak\u0131rsa, o bor\u00e7 bana \u00e2ittir; yetimlere bakmak da benim vazifemdir.\u201d (M\u00fcslim, Cuma, 43; \u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce, Mukaddime, 7)<\/p>\n<p>Di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k, insanlar\u0131n sadece madd\u00ee ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131yla de\u011fil, b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131yla me\u015fgul olmay\u0131 gerektirir.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eu h\u00e2dise bu hususta g\u00fczel bir mis\u00e2ldir:<\/p>\n<p>Ras\u00fblullah -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- Efendimizbir g\u00fcn bir elbise d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131na var\u0131p d\u00f6rt dirheme bir g\u00f6mlek sat\u0131n alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. G\u00f6mle\u011fi giyerek d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. O esn\u00e2da Ens\u00e2r\u2019dan bir z\u00e2t ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131. O ki\u015fi:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Y\u00e2 Ras\u00fbl\u00e2llah! Bana bir g\u00f6mlek giydir, Allah Sana Cennet elbiseleri giydirsin!\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Efendimiz -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- hemen g\u00f6mle\u011fi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p o sah\u00e2b\u00eeye giydirdi. D\u00fckk\u00e2na geri d\u00f6nerek d\u00f6rt dirheme bir g\u00f6mlek daha ald\u0131. Yan\u0131nda iki dirhemi kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Birden yolda a\u011flamakta olan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hizmet\u00e7i k\u0131z g\u00f6rd\u00fc ve:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Ni\u00e7in a\u011fl\u0131yorsun?\u201d diye sordu. K\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Y\u00e2 Ras\u00fbl\u00e2llah! Yanlar\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00e2ile iki dirhem verip beni un almaya g\u00f6ndermi\u015fti, paray\u0131 kaybettim!\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Nebiyy-i Ekrem -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- kalan iki dirhemi de ona verdi. D\u00f6n\u00fcp giderken k\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z\u0131n h\u00e2l\u00e2 a\u011flamaya devam etti\u011fini fark edince yan\u0131na \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131p:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Ni\u00e7in a\u011fl\u0131yorsun, dirhemleri ald\u0131n?!\u201d buyurdu. K\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z bu defa:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Gecikti\u011fim i\u00e7in bana cef\u00e2 ederler diye korkuyorum!\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- onunla birlikte, hizmet etti\u011fi \u00e2ilenin evine kadar gitti ve sel\u00e2m verdi. Evdekiler Efendimiz\u2019in sesini tan\u0131d\u0131lar, ancak cevap vermediler. Peygamberimiz ikinci kez sel\u00e2m verdi, yine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermediler. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc sel\u00e2m\u0131nda \u201cAleyk\u00fcm sel\u00e2m\u201d diyerek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sevin\u00e7le d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131lar. Ras\u00fblullah -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013\u0130lk sel\u00e2m\u0131 duymad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?\u201d buyurdu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Duyduk y\u00e2 Ras\u00fbl\u00e2llah, ancak \u00e7ok\u00e7a sel\u00e2m verip bizi bereketlendirmenizi arzu ettik, onun i\u00e7in hemen cevap vermedik. Sizi buraya kadar getiren nedir, annelerimiz babalar\u0131m\u0131z size fed\u00e2 olsun?!\u201d dediler.<\/p>\n<p>Ras\u00fblullah -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Bu k\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z sizin kendisine cef\u00e2 etmenizden korktu.\u201d buyurdu.<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc i\u015fiten ev sahibi:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013M\u00e2dem siz onunla birlikte buraya kadar te\u015frif ettiniz, o art\u0131k Allah i\u00e7in h\u00fcrd\u00fcr!\u201d dedi. Ras\u00fblullah -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- de onlar\u0131 hay\u0131rla ve Cennet\u2019le m\u00fcjdeledi. Sonra da \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Allah on dirheme ne kadar da bereket l\u00fbtfetti. Onunla Peygamber\u2019ine ve Ens\u00e2r\u2019dan bir z\u00e2ta birer g\u00f6mlek giydirdi ve bir k\u00f6leyi de \u00e2z\u00e2d eyledi. All\u00e2h\u2019a hamd olsun! B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 kudretiyle bizlere l\u00fbtfeden O\u2019dur.\u201d(Heysem\u00ee, IX, 13-14)<\/p>\n<p>Ras\u00fblullah -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- Efendimiz, \u00fcmmetini di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131\u011fa \u015f\u00f6yle te\u015fvik etmi\u015flerdir:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cM\u00fcsl\u00fcman m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n karde\u015fidir. Ona zulmetmez, onu d\u00fc\u015fmana teslim etmez. Kim bir karde\u015finin ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131larsa, Allah da onun ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lar. Kim bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n herhangi bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 giderirse Allah da onun k\u0131y\u00e2met g\u00fcn\u00fcndeki s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131ndan birini giderir. Kim bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rterse, Allah da k\u0131y\u00e2met g\u00fcn\u00fcnde onun ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rter.\u201d(Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Mez\u00e2lim, 3; M\u00fcslim, Birr, 58)<\/p>\n<p>Sadece kendini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, di\u011fer insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 duygusuz davranmak, m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana yak\u0131\u015fmaz. Zira Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc -sall\u00e2ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKom\u015fusu a\u00e7ken tok yatan kimse (k\u00e2mil) m\u00fc\u2019min de\u011fildir!\u201d buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. (H\u00e2kim, II, 15; Heysem\u00ee, VIII, 167; Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, el-Edeb\u00fc\u2019l-M\u00fcfred, no: 112)<\/p>\n<p>Eb\u00fb\u2019l-Hasan Harak\u0101n\u00ee -rahmetull\u00e2hi aleyh-\u2019in \u015fu if\u00e2deleri, takv\u00e2 ile seviye kazanm\u0131\u015f m\u00fc\u2019min bir g\u00f6nl\u00fcn, nas\u0131l bir di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k ufku sergiledi\u011finin b\u00e2riz bir mis\u00e2lidir:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00fcrkistan\u2019dan \u015eam\u2019a kadar olan sahada birinin parma\u011f\u0131na batan diken, benim parma\u011f\u0131ma batm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Birinin aya\u011f\u0131na \u00e7arpan ta\u015f, benim aya\u011f\u0131ma \u00e7arpm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Onun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ben de duyar\u0131m. Bir kalpte \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve h\u00fcz\u00fcn varsa, o kalp benim kalbimdir.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Antakyal\u0131 Eb\u00fb\u2019l-Hasan \u015f\u00f6yle nakleder:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir defas\u0131nda otuz k\u00fcsur ki\u015fi Rey \u015fehri civar\u0131ndaki bir k\u00f6yde toplanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bunlar\u0131n, hepsine yetmeyecek kadar say\u0131l\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6rekleri vard\u0131. \u00c7\u00f6rekleri par\u00e7alad\u0131lar, \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 k\u0131sarak yeme\u011fe oturdular.<\/p>\n<p>Bir m\u00fcddet sonra sofra kald\u0131r\u0131lmak \u00fczere \u0131\u015f\u0131klar a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ekmeklerin oldu\u011fu gibi sofrada durdu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcler. Zira sofradakilerin her biri di\u011fer karde\u015fini kendisine tercih etmi\u015f, hi\u00e7 kimse \u00e7\u00f6reklerden yememi\u015fti.\u201d (\u0130hy\u00e2, III, 572)<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019\u0131n insana kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k, merhamet ve muhabbet ufku\u2026 Son bir mis\u00e2li de, Hazret-i Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n Mesnev\u00ee\u2019si bereketiyle hid\u00e2yet bulmu\u015f, yan\u0131k bir Peygamber \u00e2\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan, hocam Yaman Dede\u2019den nakledeyim:<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn derste \u00f6\u011frencilerinden biri sorar:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013Hocam, a\u011f\u0131r bir g\u00fcn\u00e2h\u0131n alt\u0131nda kalmay\u0131 m\u0131, yoksa c\u00fczzam illetine tutulmay\u0131 m\u0131 tercih edersiniz?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yaman Dede der ki:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2013All\u00e2h\u2019\u0131n kullar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6n\u00fcl d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndan bir an i\u00e7in uzakla\u015fmak ve duyars\u0131z kalmaktansa diri diri yan\u0131p k\u00fcl olmay\u0131 tercih ederim!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Velhas\u0131l m\u00fcsl\u00fcman, din karde\u015finin huzuruyla huzur bulan, h\u00fczn\u00fcyle mahzun olan, di\u011ferg\u00e2m, merhametli ve fedak\u00e2r insand\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eeyh S\u00e2d\u00ee ne g\u00fczel buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHer insanda bir kal\u0131p ve k\u0131yafet g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun. \u0130nsanl\u0131k, o kal\u0131p ve kisve ile de\u011fildir. \u0130nsanl\u0131k; \u00e2licenapl\u0131k ve di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131klad\u0131r. S\u00fbret yeterli de\u011fil, as\u0131l s\u00eeret (yani g\u00f6n\u00fcl \u00e2lemi) l\u00e2z\u0131md\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, bizleri din karde\u015flerinin derdiyle dertlenip, onlar\u0131 kendimize tercih eden, takv\u00e2 sahibi s\u00e2lih kullar\u0131ndan eylesin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c2m\u00een\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>*Yazarlar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri mutlak olarak Prizren Post&#8217;un g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini temsil etmemektedir.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir Soru Bir Cevap | Gen\u00e7 Dergisi Y\u0131l: 2014, Ay: A\u011fustos, Say\u0131: 95 Efendim; Di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k nedir? \u0130sl\u00e2m ahl\u00e2k\u0131, m\u00fc\u02bcminlere nas\u0131l bir di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k ufku telkin eder? Bir m\u00fc\u2019minin ahl\u00e2k ve faz\u00eelet seviyesini g\u00f6steren en b\u00e2riz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc olan di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131k, kendinden \u00f6nce din karde\u015finin huzur ve sa\u00e2detini tercih edebilmektir. Yani benlikten di\u011ferg\u00e2ml\u0131\u011fa ge\u00e7ip; \u00ab\u00d6nce ben\u00bb yerine \u00ab\u00f6nce sen\u00bb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5499,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4942","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kose-yazilari"],"views":823,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4942","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4942"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4942\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7611,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4942\/revisions\/7611"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/prizrenpost.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}